Taking A Winter
Okay everyone, the holidays have passed, winter is in full swing (well, unless you live in GA and then the weather just does what it wants), and we’re mostly energetically continuing on into this new year with plans for what’s to come - like maybe just trying to make it past Valentine’s Day?
But do you ever feel like during the winter time, it’s just not totally possible to fire on all cylinders, so to speak? Well, you’re not wrong. Or lazy. That’s actually set up in nature to be true…and necessary.
The process of “surviving a winter” is a natural and important life-process. Think about that: Even the ground in this part of the world takes this time to rest, goes dormant, and prepares for a new beginning once spring begins. Anyone who has ever tried a backyard garden knows that once winter rolls around again, the garden throws up its hands and says “I’m taking a break! See you in 2-3 months!”
Have you ever considered what taking a winter might look like in your life? Or more specifically, what spending a little time focusing on your mental health might do for your overall health? If fact, did you know that mental health is:
Spiritual health
Nutritional health
Hormonal health
Social health
Physical health
It’s true. Because all of these things influence a person’s mood and behavior.
Yet, particularly in the Church, we may still be more comfortable discussing all the topics on the list above openly among our Christian peers- more than we are comfortable discussing our mental health. Perhaps it’s because we are scared of what it means to struggle with our thoughts/emotions. We find ourselves delivering the message “you can talk about a mental health struggle, but only to a certain extent. After that [ambiguous] limit, it must be a faith/strength of relationship with Jesus issue and we don’t need to hear about it.” We make it about a flaw that should be easy to correct if our faith was strong enough, rather than accepting that a person can have a health issue and a strong faith at the same time.
When we need a heart doctor, we go. We see a doctor just about once/year! When you need a therapist, go. It doesn’t mean you don’t have the upmost respect and faith in God. It means you DO. It means you respect His words and guidance enough to know that what he says he means. And when we are hurting ourselves (emotionally, physically, overeating, avoiding important things) or hurting others (even unintentionally), we are not living the abundant life that God promises. He would want you to go see a therapist when you need to. He’s a good father and knows you better than you know yourself. And sometimes when we know and love people incredibly intimately, we urge them to take care of themselves because we can see things they might not.
When you need a therapist. Go. It’s of great respect to God’s authority in your life.
Therapy is discipleship.
