What brings you joy?

Ending the year and finishing out a busy holiday season can be exhausting. The second that last family member leaves or the moment you finally receive a little alone time, you audibly exhale. Your heart rate slows. You crash on the couch for a bit. Good, do that if you need to.

Here’s a tip that can help get you through to the finish line of that chaotic family season. Every day take note of at least one thing that brought you joy that day. Even in the hard, even in the frustrating. What brought you joy? Take out a journal and write it all down for 1-2 minutes (no biggie). And I bet one thing will turn into a few things you can identify.

Examples:

• Waking up and having coffee with milk each morning.

• My first 30 minutes of the day, just me and God.

• The way my son’s neck smells when I’m putting him to bed each night.

• The way my made-bed looks as I pull back the covers to climb in, as if it’s politely beckoning me.

You get the picture, right?

Even when things are really tough, you can find a few things that brought you joy, gratitude even. And research shows that real gratitude can have the same effects on the brain as an SSRI (depression medication). The kicker is it has to be genuine gratitude (the smell of a baby’s neck) not trite gratitude (I’m thankful for food and shelter, I’m thankful for my family). Unless of course those things perhaps were once in question and now you are really, truly, eyes-wide, thankful for them. Get it?

It’s amazing to us that God created the brain as intricately as He did. It’s amazing that we can see in God’s design that when we intentionally look for gratitude, our brain responds as if we had a human-made medication.

And absolutely do not hear this incorrectly - sometimes the best thing we need for a season or even for a lifetime (depending on the situation) is a medication. The same way you might need medication for diabetes or a heart condition.

Dear friend, God loves you so much.

He wants you to remember. Remember what True North is. Remember who you are IN Him. Remember you are not your brokenness, your trauma, your family’s past. You are His. And what He created is deeply, powerfully intricate - yet simple.

What brings joy and gratitude is usually incredibly powerful and important, yet simple. 

Made in God’s image. True North.

Keep your eyes on True North. And reach out if therapy services could be the next step in supporting you to do so.

Happy New Year, friend!

May 2022 be powerful, joy-filled and simple. May it be filled with Jesus and healing.

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